Relationships Algorithm

The steps

1. Identify which Kingdom each party operates from in this relationship. The relationship’s health is largely determined by Kingdom alignment between parties.
2. Identify the gradient. Healthy relationships establish and channel gradients between parties (complementary capacities, mutual growth, shared meaning). Stale relationships have no active gradient.
3. Apply Vibration. Are the frequencies of communication aligned? Frequency mismatch produces dissipation regardless of mutual care.
4. Apply Polarity. Are differences treated as conflict or as complementary poles of one axis?
5. Apply Gender. Is creative work in the relationship integrating Masculine projection and Feminine reception, or has one polarity collapsed?
6. Locate the dynamic middle. Most relationship struggles are extreme Yang (too much demand, control, expression) or extreme Yin (too much accommodation, withdrawal, silence).
7. Establish observation at multiple levels. The relationship persists when observed regularly across cognitive (memory), behavioral (action), emotional (attunement), and meaning (shared narrative) levels.
8. Per the Capsule mechanism: every prior interaction is integrated into the current relationship. Honor what has been built. Repair what has been damaged.
9. Per Documentation: durable agreements should be explicit, not assumed.

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From the GFunnel Methodology v5.1 by Cameron Garlick, licensed CC BY 4.0. Steps are reproduced word for word.